January 6, 2021 at 10:52 am #3040Huong NguyenKeymaster
a. What male stereotypes can you identify within your immediate community ? Explain why you believe these are stereotypes. (less than 200 words)
Poverty is the man stereotype of men. Nowadays, the society is more based on wealth. If a man does not have some money, the level of respect decreases. In addition, many women misunderstand gender equality. Men and women should complete each other for a better society. The men support the majority of the expenses of the families. Men may have problems at work, are responsible for food, education, gifts, holidays, feasts, and many other duties. They are stressed and can fall into deep depressions. If the women do not understand that men are doing their best, they can regret it. A woman should be a great help for a man for a happy society. She can also work and help her family.
b. What measures do you believe can be instituted in order to ensure that these stereotypes can be broken down ? (less than 400 words)
Everything starts with the education. Men and women should be educated to collaborate. They should learn to help each other. They are complementary. Schools should focus more on teamwork than competition. The parents should educate more their children to be good persons. Money should not be the goal of life. Love should be the goal of life. People should be taught about respect and moral values for a better society. Listening center can be the solution to help the people who are affected to find their ways and believe in life. People should learn to see the beauty of life. People should focus on what is positive.
c. How do you think we can change the points of view of older generations in order to see the harm that male stereotypes are having on the younger generations’ mental health ?(Less than 400 words)
We can listen adults when they need so much help. The governments should permit that people interact more. Our society is based more on individualism and people mainly live alone. People earn their livings in searching some money. The little time they have is to eat and sleep. It is difficult to live happily in such difficult situations. The governance system should permit people to interact in participating in events and getting advice. People should be trained to interact with each other. A human being is first social.
Food plays an important role in fighting against mental diseases. The quality of food is important for health. Social media, TVs, and journals should learn people how to take care of themselves. A woman should be a partner or a friend and not someone to use. Everyone should respect the dignity of the other person.
Health versus Toxic masculinity
a. Do you believe that toxic masculinity is still evident within today’s society ? Please substantiate your answer. (less than 300 words)
Toxic masculinity is still existing. In the families, women are still suffering from that. With covid-19, the situation of women is more dangerous due to gender-based violence and divorces. Physically, the majority of men are stronger than women. They use it to dominate women. Men should know the importance of women. They play an important role in the society. A man is not complete without a family. A woman is not complete without a family. They should be united to make a good family.
There are NGOs, associations, and organizations which promote the rights of women and girls. They make substantial progress but a lot of things should be done. Women are still mistreated and that should change for better.
b. Can toxic masculinity be unlearnt ? Please elaborate on your answer (less than 200 words)
Biologically, we are the same. But what makes the difference is the culture. The culture is the environment in which we have lived in. If a person is bred in a safe environment where there is respect, he will learn to respect people. But if it is not the case, the person will learn toxic masculinity. The person will learn gender-based violence. A good education is the key to make toxic masculinity unlearnt.
It is also important for people to learn from their mistakes and change positively their minds.
c. How, as a kectil Colleague, would you go about shifting the narrative from toxic to healthy masculinity ? (less than 300 words)
Toxic masculinity depends of the environment of the people. People should live happier. I think that if the society does not teach people against toxic masculinity, they should realize the government policies should redirect them to change their bad habits. For example advertising in the streets can be a good solution. If men see the punishment of the law, something will change in the society for better. The social media can be a tool to make the fight powerful. Essay competitions about the topic can be interesting in the fight against toxic masculinity. All the people, men and women should be put at the center of everything to bring positive change in the society. The minorities and the majorities should be included in the functioning of the society. Everyone should know what the other person does not like and do what is possible to respect the engagements. Everybody should know the dignity of the other person and do one’s best to keep friendship, humility, and dignity.
d. What do you believe the benefits of integrating a sense of healthy masculinity into a community are ? (less than 200 words)
Integrating a sense of healthy masculinity into a community is a good thing in the society. In that case, everyone is important and useful. There is not gender-based violence and toxic relationships between people. Love guides everyone and people accept each other with respect and honour. In this type of society, someone does not need to undervalue another person to be great. Everyone sees the beauty and the importance of the neighbourhood. People realize that they live in a fantastic society. And what is the most important is that people know that they build this society for themselves and for the future generations.
Healthy masculinity is respecting each other and supporting women when they need men. Both men and women need a society where they feel they are respected and useful.
e. How do you believe we can enhance healthy masculinity practices within our communities, especially in the context of lockdown and the pandemic ?(less than 300 words)
What is difficult to live is lockdown. With lockdown, people’s mental health are affected and they can do bad things. Lockdown has shown people that the way of entertainment should be changed. In the most of the cases, people spend a lot of time in the bars and night clubs. Because of lockdown, they are shut. Healthy masculinity decreases during lockdown. With the pandemic, people work more online. They are more in contact with the screens. But the most important is what comes from the screens. Are the majority of the images horror images? Do they sensitize how to reduce stress during pandemics? Do they care about mental health? Do they sensitize about healthy masculinity? Do they sensitize people about what is forbidden by the law?
The content of the screens play an interesting role in reducing gender-based violence during pandemics.
The policies are able to sensitize people for healthy masculinity. Lockdown is an opportunity to be more united.
3. How Males can use their innate sills to protect females and advance/improve society
a. What natural abilities do you think men have to support females and transform the community ?(not more than 100 words)
Women should be seen as a strong partner with whom a man wants to live with. Men have the ability to make women realize who they are and help them be a better person. Women need men affection to feel confident and happy. Life is like a game and everyone should play his role for the happiness of the other.
b. Comment on how males are using their natural abilities in your community (not more than 150 words)
Men do their best to help their communities. Being a man is not at all easy. Men love their families and work until death for them. Men are responsible of food, health, gifts, contributions, scholarships, and so many other things. They are always stressed and need the affection of the females to enjoy life. The males use their strengths to protect the women. They are mentally solid to support women in their lives. Even if sometimes they do not say a women that they love them, they show that in their actions.
c. The world has seen great milestones in the area of women empowerment. This came with a shift in roles empowerment. What impacts do you see women liberation movements have on males in your society? (less than 500 words)
Women have played a role in the society. The women movements are organizing events to valorize the conditions of women. Women are in the center of the events. For example on March 8th, there are many organizations which sensitize women and men. There are events on dancing and playing. There are matches organized by women. It is very fantastic to see the talents of some women you cannot imagine that they have so great talents. Even men are happy on this day. Women are the diamond of the world. When you make them shine, it is the whole world which shines and makes everyone be happy.
Some associations contribute to women empowerment. They provide women with online training. Women from different countries meet to share ideas to improve their living conditions. Women also work in associations. They work together. Some associations fabricate some soap and help their husbands to take care of the families. In the society, when women are in a good position, the world is also in a good position.
d. Single out an outstanding young male in your country/region who you believe is putting their abilities to good use. Write about what this person is doing(with facts) and why you chose them among the many(less than 300 words)
Thomas Sankara is the person who contributed to give women a great place in the society. Thanks to him, the conditions of the women have been improved. He is a man and believes that the contribution of women is very crucial. He gave women a consideration they did not have. On March 8th, men are invited to go to the market and cook for the family. He gave important positions to women in the government. These women were examples in the society for other women and girls and even men. He is always in the minds of the people. People and other countries are still implementing his actions. He is a person people trust and are willing to follow his actions. He is a true leader. He is the best.
e. How do you think women and men can work together to develop the community they live in ? (not more than 200 words)
Everything starts in the education. During the education, women and men should be trained to respect each other. Everyone on earth is important and has an important role to play. Men and women complete each other. They can help each other at home. They can take care of the families together. They are all clever and can do great things together. A good society comes from the happiness and the contribution of males and females. A female is a person who can redirect a male to change positively. Life is so simple. There are problems when there is a lack of love. Love should direct the lives of all the people. Everyone should recognize when he or she makes mistakes and work to improve the relationships. A relationship should always be in continuous perfection.
f. What shape should an ideal women liberation movement in the contemporary world take Physical ability (less than 200 words)
A woman liberation movement should aim at increasing the conditions of women. Women should fight for the valorization of their bodies. The body of a woman is a treasure. It should be respected. The women liberation movements should fight for education for all the women. The education of women and their employment increase the lifestyle of the society. The movements of liberation should also convince men to support them in their fights for a better society. They need the support of men in this fight. Women have a powerful influence on this world. Let us make them shine for a peaceful society.
MALES ROLE IN SOCIETY PANEL DISCUSSION
a. Does the panel agree with this pledge ?
The panel does agree with this pledge. They have sisters and need the best for them. The males feel protective to their sisters. A female needs respect and consideration. It is not good to joke with love. Love is a commitment to be part of the life of someone you love the most.
b. How would you go about encouraging males to take the ‘Kectil Male Promise ?’
They think that they should first be good examples among their friends. Their behaviours should be an example to follow. They will talk to their friends and convince them to respect women. Women need respect and attention. The use of social media is a good tool to sensitize males to be good partners for women.
c. What do you believe can be added to the Male Promise, and why ?
They think that it is already good. But they think that there should be a Female Promise too.
Females should engage not to play with the love of males. They should not be willing to exploit the love of males through money. They should be honest. If not, they should let the males live their lives quietly. They think that the promise is both for the males and the females.
d. What responsible steps do you believe are constituted in facilitating other females who find themselves in risky situations ?
The young people say that it should be better for the other females to go to listening centers to make their voices heard by the authorities. They should also talk to their friends who can give them good suggestions. Love should not be forced. It should come naturally.
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